Sissydude is…

Sissydude is a visual blog whirling in sexuality & mystery. All of my interests and obsessions take you on a totally transplendent journey of annoyance and self-discovery. Please remember you are 18 years old & over! NSFW

85 Responses

  1. Marco

    I’m so curious: why the switch? Why leave Tumblr and go to WordPress? I keep toying with starting one of these (inspired by you), so I’m curious.

    January 9, 2011 at 11:58 am

    • admin

      Hey Marco,
      All the recent Tumblr glitches were getting REALLY annoying and I found myself getting way too lost in a Tumblr hole.
      I needed to get more focused… and I have plans for Sissydude… and having my own domain with no rules seemed best.
      You just know Tumblr will go the way of Blogger & start shutting down the sexy fun dirt.
      New year… new Sissydude.

      January 9, 2011 at 12:06 pm

    • A F Bunny

      Loved you on tumblr, on your new website, clothed, naked, unashamed. Did not love how I couldn’t find a way to e-mail the following horrible/wonderful insane link. It might just be my work clouded brain, though.

      January 14, 2011 at 6:07 pm

  2. I fully support your move away from Tumblr. As long as you’re still online and posting somewhere I’ll be happy. If I may make one small suggestion; your text color makes it very hard to read against your background. I know that the blog is mostly visual, but I do like to read the captions! LOVE YOU!!!

    January 10, 2011 at 6:19 pm

    • admin

      Thanks Kyle!
      Yes, my friend Aubs & I are working on the text & stuff right now…
      There will be tweaking and adjustments as we go.
      Hopefully there will be readable text within a few hours.

      January 10, 2011 at 7:16 pm

  3. Ray

    Hey John,

    Will allways be following you… Keep them great retro pics coming!

    Greetz, Ray

    January 11, 2011 at 2:07 pm

  4. My Tumblr dashboard feels empty without you 🙁 but I agree, you deserve a better platform. Can’t wait to see what surprises and twists you have in store for us!
    Love, SJ

    January 11, 2011 at 6:47 pm

    • admin

      I miss you too!
      And I’m sure you’ll see some of your images on Sissydude… like in hours.
      Just felt the need to expand.

      January 11, 2011 at 8:04 pm

  5. mjrgg

    Hey Sissy Dude!
    I “FUCKIN” Heart your werk!..IT’s great!

    January 12, 2011 at 7:01 pm

  6. I’ve been blogging since 2003, and I am very impressed with your work. I would like to interview you, please send me an email.

    Lavender Lounge

    January 13, 2011 at 1:41 pm

  7. pj

    hey j, where did you find the amazing Van Vechten scrapbook pages?! most excellent.

    January 14, 2011 at 10:30 am

  8. Is there an RSS feed for this site? Can you post the address.
    And if you are still following people on tumblr take a look at my blog:

    January 15, 2011 at 2:59 pm

  9. Just because you’re no longer on tumblr doesn’t mean I’m not going to keep these hot cam4 guys from you. This guy was insane. I couldn’t really hold it in for very long…

    January 20, 2011 at 11:22 am

  10. Ryan

    Ever since you started this new site, you suck in uploading pics… The quality of your site has gone down… Too bad, cuz i really liked the old sissydude, watched it every day…

    Hope you do something about it…

    Love from Holland,


    January 21, 2011 at 3:20 pm

    • admin

      Ryan… that’s love from Holland? Some love.
      I suck? No I don’t suck at uploading… I’m just not on the neverending Tumblr loop of easy reposts in seconds.
      Just getting more selective and today I felt like taking a breather… It’s my blog… so I can do whatever I want!

      January 21, 2011 at 4:10 pm

  11. mjrgg

    Hey John,
    love the Fake Jan Elton cover…poor thing she never stood a chance against the legions of loyal Eve Plumb fans…But I dont remember Kitty Oneil?any way thanks for the keeping the flow…ever in SF? xo Mark

    January 22, 2011 at 9:09 am

  12. Oh dear…my link took you nowhere, apologies!

    it’s my latest post.

    Sam 😉

    January 24, 2011 at 9:49 am

  13. JohnnyUSA

    Just a note to say I adore you and your site. I stop in each morning for my fix. By the way, just saw your photo. Gee but you are quite the handsomest of men.

    January 28, 2011 at 7:13 am

  14. Avery

    Hey J-

    When are you coming to Seattle? I would love to eat you. You’ve got delicious ass and dick. Yum. 😉 Love the! Thank you for your hard work!

    -A from Seattle

    January 30, 2011 at 12:14 pm

  15. JC

    Hi, I´m a big anonymous fan of your site. I just saw this website and I´m sure you´ll enjoy it…

    February 5, 2011 at 10:17 am

    • admin

      Thanks JC… AWESOME!

      February 5, 2011 at 3:01 pm

  16. Ziegque

    Dear Sissydude,

    I have been a big fan of your blog for some time. Thanks for the great Valentine’s cards!. I printed some off and handed them out at the local watering hole today. The response was, well, enormousI. I of course, directed everyone to your blog. Great work!

    Ziegque in St. Louis, Missouri

    February 13, 2011 at 9:22 pm

    • admin

      Love it!!!
      Glad you spread the Sissydude LOVE out there in your hood.
      HAPPY VD!

      February 13, 2011 at 10:06 pm

  17. burak

    I am now your Fan.

    February 16, 2011 at 6:06 pm

  18. Greatly surprised to see the old photo of the great Austrian actress Paula Wessely. I had the amazing opportunity, as a student in Vienna, of seeing her act in of all things, an American comedy…. She was superb. Thanks!

    March 11, 2011 at 4:23 pm

  19. Kevin

    Hey Sissydude! I was still hoping to going flea marketing with you! Email me!

    March 13, 2011 at 8:51 pm

    • admin

      Yes Kevin! When would you like to go?


      March 15, 2011 at 9:56 pm

  20. Greg Teller

    I just discovered your blog and I LOVE it! I love the combination of beauty and sexiness and quirkiness. You have such a wonderful eye and a witty mind! Thanks for posting all this stuff!

    March 20, 2011 at 7:08 am

  21. well. i was sort of… hoping… that you might post this:

    at the least you should definitely check out the video. i think you just might love it. maybe.

    gossip girl

    March 23, 2011 at 12:16 pm

  22. Bruce

    My favorite personal ad from “Screw” magazine years ago:

    Young straight photog seeks dwarf biker-dyker greaser chicks for occasional weekend fun and photo sessions. NO SICKIES.

    Wish I’d answered him.

    March 23, 2011 at 11:56 pm

  23. Michael van den Berg

    Hey SissyDude,

    I love your blog. It is colourful in many ways and always provides me with a smile for the day. It is nice to see how the past defined the world around us, although I must admit I don’t miss some of the clothes. lol I do like your move from Tumblr though because it seems to have made you more free to do whatever the hell you want, which is nice for a blogger to have…..freedom.

    So please keep posting because you are doing a bang up job!

    Cheers from Chatham.


    April 1, 2011 at 7:21 pm

  24. Cassin

    love your posts-grew up in the 5o’s so it’s a walk down memory lane for me-thanks.

    April 3, 2011 at 11:32 am

  25. JC

    hi, i send you an email to the address you show on your website but I don´t know if you are getting those mails… maybe I should have send you a message directly through here…

    basically I told you that I had to masturbate twice after reading the Brotherly Love story… and I did it thinking of him:

    Thanks for sharing.


    May 27, 2011 at 7:17 pm

  26. Rich

    Are you going to load the old archived pages into the new site eventually? I’m a latecomer to the site and I’d only gotten up to page 200-something. I was having a great time going back in time with you…
    Love the new stuff, just the same.

    June 26, 2011 at 6:19 pm

    • admin

      Thanks Rich… HA!… don’t think I’ll be moving the tumblr archives to… I’d LOVE to though, but 30,000 images would take time…
      time I don’t have (yet).

      June 26, 2011 at 8:00 pm

  27. ScreamingSkin

    I want my SissyDude! ;o)

    July 5, 2011 at 1:31 pm

  28. Nick

    Hi Handsome!
    Where can I buy some SissyDude Pins??

    July 28, 2011 at 11:31 am

  29. Abby Tallmer

    Hi There:

    I am a queer woman born & bred in NYC (Far West Village/Meatpacking District, to be exact)and I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE your blog. It’s so witty, beautiful, entertaining, and enlightening. Keep up the good work.

    Abby in NYC

    August 29, 2011 at 7:43 am

    • admin

      Thanks Abby…
      Yay! I LOVE WOMEN!!! Yay!
      xoxoxoxo John

      August 29, 2011 at 6:35 pm

  30. I downloaded your Christmas Music Mix last year and totally loved it. Think you’ll do a Christmas Volume 2 this year?


    November 22, 2011 at 2:27 pm

  31. peter

    love the snowflakes. have you seen this? it’s neato

    January 2, 2012 at 5:52 pm

  32. Gil

    Dude, so in crush with you. Love your blog, love your look. Such a sexy man.

    January 9, 2012 at 9:23 am

  33. Andrea Jozsef

    Hey, I have found your site through Pinterest.

    I am a hetero woman, but I have to confess, your site is great and I love many photos here.

    Thank you.

    February 4, 2012 at 8:30 am

    • admin

      Thanks Andrea!

      February 6, 2012 at 7:42 am

  34. Steve

    Hello from Atlanta, GA!

    I can’t recall how I came upon your site, but I love it. You have a great aesthetic, not to mention great taste in man-candy.

    I’m married (to a guy) but have a not-so-secret long-distance crush on you…


    February 21, 2012 at 8:46 am

  35. Babiche

    HELLO .
    I wana just know about this pic( who is this man ) i need to have it ( the pic) pleeeeeez

    March 29, 2012 at 4:10 am

    • Joseph meows

      Sissy dude I’m 23 year old in Southern California, when will you ever be here so we can hangout!!!

      December 4, 2012 at 1:31 am

  36. Babiche


    March 29, 2012 at 4:11 am

  37. Bill

    ok, I was surfing porn and one of your postings came up. It’s a cornucopia of visual delights! Thanks for all the hard work you put into it.
    If there was one thing I find a little vexing, is that there is no ‘archive’ button to click on. Lost my page, and have to go ‘to older posts’ endlessly unless I delve by category.

    …but then I don’t have a website and don’t know how difficult the whole thing is.

    Thanks again. Bill, from Canada

    April 17, 2012 at 11:45 am

    • Bill

      Hey Sissydude. I looked at what I just posted and realized that I missed out on making my ‘point’ of why I enjoy your site. Could you not post it, and post the following?

      ok, I was surfing porn and one of your postings came up. Looked up Sissydude and wow! It’s a cornucopia of visual delights – and I don’t mean porn here! Thanks for all the hard work you put into it.
      If there was one thing I find a little vexing, is that there is no ‘archive’ button to click on. Lost my page, and have to go ‘to older posts’ endlessly unless I delve by category.

      …but then I don’t have a website and don’t know how difficult the whole thing is.

      Thanks again. Bill, from Canada

      April 17, 2012 at 11:48 am

  38. norris carr

    if you could go back in time. what year would you go back too? i would like to say i love you’er web page .im a fan. thank you for sharing.

    April 27, 2012 at 5:30 am

  39. Just wanted to say that I love your stuff. I’ve been following you a long time; you have so many interesting things to look at!

    June 26, 2012 at 2:23 pm

  40. steve

    That kid with the ice cream cone is priceless. 🙂

    August 2, 2012 at 10:35 pm

  41. John Webster. Did that glittered poodle I sent you at Christmas ever arrive?

    August 18, 2012 at 9:31 am

    • admin

      Oh god! Yes it did… the funny thing is I have the exact same designed poodle (black & pipe cleaners). They’re a couple now!

      Thanks so much Jim!

      August 18, 2012 at 10:38 am

  42. Am emailing you a track that I recorded with my band Book Club’s alter ego The Granny Smiths: Some Girls Are Bigger Than Others. Just a little pillow. Check your email!

    August 21, 2012 at 7:14 pm

  43. Scott

    love your design work! you are a into design, I’m guessing.

    where did you find the pillow picture? i’m looking for one without the “sissy dude” logo – which is excellent, btw.

    September 1, 2012 at 8:45 pm

  44. toohotfortv

    Just some suggestions… From looking at your site, I imagine you might find interest in Daughn Gibson and Perfume Genius (especially his “hood” video).

    September 15, 2012 at 9:19 am

  45. Jason

    Only just discovered your blog today and already a big fan! Love it!!

    October 9, 2012 at 4:19 pm

    • admin

      Welcome! xo

      October 9, 2012 at 6:34 pm

  46. RJ

    Love the painting on the header. Do you know who painted it?

    October 21, 2012 at 5:34 am

    • admin

      I could kick myself… I had the info then lost it… so I don’t know… but if I find it I’ll let you know! xo

      October 21, 2012 at 8:14 am

  47. Michael

    Hi John,

    Whose cock is that in your header at the moment? That pic is really hot.


    Michael 😉

    January 21, 2013 at 1:57 am

    • admin

      Hey Michael, I have no clue… but it is indeed hot.

      January 21, 2013 at 7:43 am

  48. Mickey

    Hi John,

    I think you should check out Carlton (Australian Rules Footbal)l player Kade Simpson…

    That’s all I’ll say.

    Keep posting 😉


    April 7, 2013 at 7:01 am

  49. Nick

    Miran Kurspahić – google it. 😀

    April 28, 2013 at 10:17 am

  50. Tony

    Petunia Pig with a penis?! I’m going to like it here. Looking forward to this “transplendent journey of annoyance and self-discovery”! Sorry I’m just now climbing aboard.


    May 31, 2013 at 9:14 am

    • admin

      Welcome Tony! Enjoy.

      May 31, 2013 at 11:49 am

  51. Jesse Kahn

    Are these gorgeous pieces for sale?

    June 10, 2013 at 5:17 pm

    • admin

      What gorgeous pieces?

      June 10, 2013 at 7:31 pm

  52. I didn’t quite know where to leave this, but I just wanted to say how I’m constantly amazed and intrigued and enlightened by the range of material you bring to the site.

    Thank you, John.

    July 27, 2013 at 8:32 am

  53. Nayo

    Here there is a link that may you find interesting:

    PS. I love your site.

    October 2, 2013 at 4:38 am

  54. Long time stalker, first time commenter.
    Just wanted to say Hello and that I adore pretty much everything you post. I actually got the idea for my tumblr page from your blog/website. I love the hairy mens, art, and retro stuff all jumbled together. Great work man =D

    January 19, 2014 at 10:29 pm

  55. kevin

    john love the website but I think yoh have to change that cover pic. Robert Mitchum;s finger is so giving me the creeps I cant look at it!
    keep up the great work

    February 16, 2014 at 7:29 pm

  56. Larry dela PalmSprings

    I think I am falling in love with sissydude!
    I take two Alka-Seltzer now and write you in the morning! P.S. I do love you site!!!

    April 16, 2014 at 10:57 pm

  57. puck

    Oh my god where did you find this man !

    April 29, 2014 at 1:00 am

  58. phil melampy

    i found a new boyfriend for you: matt brown mma fighter.

    May 10, 2014 at 4:09 pm

  59. randomguyva

    OMG i want to marry josh mario please keep the kenney file your the best

    May 13, 2014 at 10:44 am

  60. Richard

    LOVE the early child photo’s and see like me you always had a cat growing up….
    I have been a fan from the start and will be with you till the end. Amazing blog…
    Your devoted fan for life down in Dallas, Texas!


    August 29, 2014 at 7:15 am

  61. Sean Shore

    I love SISSYDUDE. It’s naughty.. In a classy way. Timely. Interesting.
    And you found the 3 pieces of Aaron Spelling’s
    “The Decorator”. Which i edited back into a single video.

    February 16, 2015 at 8:30 pm

  62. Kilgore Trout

    Cool blog. Love it.

    April 30, 2016 at 9:27 am

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